Fed up

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i have to say it though i didn’t want to…i am fed up with nosey people who think they know everything, coming to my blogs and making rude, obnoxious comments. i am going to be password protecting both blogs, though i really really didn’t want to. friends, and even kind lurkers, let me know if you would request a password if i did this.

i really appreciate the kind childfree folks, who come to my site to check on me. but those who come to be rude, evil and offensive, i really wish you would just grow up! the reason you don’t want kids is you act like spoiled children yourselves!

insania – get a LIFE!

suzzy – though i do believe a baby’s only way to communicate is crying, sometimes babies just need to cry to get out frustrated energy. i would NEVER let my baby cry when he is hungry, wet, in pain or needing me to hold him. however there are some times that he just wants to cry and there is nothing wrong. it has taken me a while to know the difference, but i do now (most of the time – and if i’m unsure, i DO NOT let him cry it out!). and i am NOT being a horrible mother by letting him cry at those times!! i love my baby VERY much and would never do anything to purposely hurt him, or to break our bond. i usually hold him anyway unless he’s sleeping or if i need to do something insignificant, like SHOWER, EAT or USE THE RESTROOM. heaven forbid i take care of MYSELF, right?! i am ashamed at you for accusing me of being uncaring to him.
well now that that’s off my chest, i will be going. i really wonder why i get such strange people visiting…

thursday tattle:
Week Twenty Nine…..March 11th, 2004
Feelings
I love when? my little boy smiles at me, my hubby hugs or kisses me.
I hate it when? rude people leave obnoxious comments on my site or my son’s site.
I can’t stand when? there isn’t enough time in the day to do all i wanted to!
I am happy when? my whole family is happy.
I am sad when? i think about abortion.
I am angry when? i am misunderstood.

hugs and thanks to all my true-blue supportive pals. 🙂 love you!

This Post Has 17 Comments

  1. Nikki

    I had never heard of a molar pregnancy before so I looked it up.
    I had never heard of a molar pregnancy before so I looked it up. It sounds like a really heartbreaking condition to have. I pray that your mom’s friend’s daughter is healed physically and emotionally.

    by the way, thanks for visiting and commenting on my site ((hugs))

  2. Brandi

    Jenn –
    Please don’t let ignorance bother you.
    Jenn –
    Please don’t let ignorance bother you. When people don’t have kids they simply don’t understand what it is like to me a mother! I can only hope all of these ladies that are commenting on things that they have no idea about remember their advice when they are kids and realize how immature and just plain stupid they are. Yes sometimes a baby just needs to cry and sometime as a mother you just needs to let their baby cry. Not just b/c there is nothing wrong with the child but also b/c if don’t walk away and let the baby cry you could go totally insane at any second. I think your doing a wonderful job! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!:baby::angel::headphones:

  3. Cheryl

    Hugs, Jenn. I’m sorry so many people have chosen to harrass you.
    Hugs, Jenn. I’m sorry so many people have chosen to harrass you. I will never understand what good comes of picking on people in different situations. We love you and know you’re a great mommy!!

  4. Bobbie

    Oh Jenn.. I am so sorry that people are being rude and leaving n
    Oh Jenn.. I am so sorry that people are being rude and leaving nasty comments.. I am one of your lurkers.. I have signed just recently ( I also lurk Rebekah’s blog.. lol) I don’t blame you for wanting to pass word protect your site.. People should respect your life.. I love to read about Jerimiah.. it seems like so long since I had a little one.. mine children are 6.5 and 2.. and I love reading about his days 🙂 hugs…

  5. Thia

    I can understand your temptation to password protect your sight.
    I can understand your temptation to password protect your sight. It is so difficult when everyone thinks they know the best way to parent YOUR child! We know you are a great momma!

  6. Nikki

    Those people who bother you should just get a life instead of wa
    Those people who bother you should just get a life instead of wasting their time harrassing people online. I enjoy reading your site. If you do decide to password protect this site, I would like to have the password :yes:

  7. Lynn

    Hey Sweet Pea!
    I was SO PROUD to get my birth announcement card
    Hey Sweet Pea!
    I was SO PROUD to get my birth announcement card! Thank you for thinking of me! He’s growing so fast too! And smiling.. that silly little rascal! 😀 You take care of yourself, you hear.. just cos doctors give the OK.. you know best! Sometimes it takes a while to be comfortable again, especially if you are still nursing (are you?).. it can be quite uncomfortable then. Just take care of yourself, ok!

    I don’t get by as regular as I’d like.. but I think of you every day!
    God Bless!
    Lynn

  8. suzzie

    no, im not stupid, nor child free. But I think that letting a 2
    no, im not stupid, nor child free. But I think that letting a 2 month old child cry is not right.
    i have two kids, and we never ever let them cio.
    They are independent, loving kids now, who TRUST us.
    My God wants us to teach them morals, values and trust.Not spanking, or cio.

  9. suzzie

    i never said you were uncaring, but a 2 month old doeasnt need s
    i never said you were uncaring, but a 2 month old doeasnt need sleep trained.crying so you can go to the br is one thing, crying to sleep ect is something else.tbey do things at their pace, not yours nor anyone elses.
    one thing i know, you cant make a child eat, sleep or pee when you want them to.respect the child of God you have been given and you will be happy when they are older.

  10. Jenns CF Friend

    WTG Jenn! While Im not a parent, a lot of my friends are and my
    WTG Jenn! While Im not a parent, a lot of my friends are and my husband has 2 of his own by a previous marriage.
    If you attend to baby’s every whim and cry, you’ll only pay for it later on. My best friend did it when she was a new mommy like you and by the time the baby was 8 mths she seemed to be a shell of her former self and constantly running to attend to the baby.
    Lurking CF people who harrass Jenn, please note Jenn is displaying all the traits we admire in good parents and not over coddling Jeremiah!!

    Have a great day!
    :kiss:

  11. Jenns CF Friend

    I forgot to say Jenn, I’d be ok with the password thing.
    I forgot to say Jenn, I’d be ok with the password thing. Ignore the jerks who make me embarrassed to be CF.

  12. Krystal

    When you password protect the blogs, I’d like the password 🙂 I
    When you password protect the blogs, I’d like the password 🙂 I love reading this blog. Some people are just hateful people and they’re not worth it. No one can tell you how to raise *your* son, do what you feel is right.

  13. Rebekah

    Too bad about having to password protect your comments.
    Too bad about having to password protect your comments. You’d think people would have better things to do than to go to the journals of people they don’t even know from Adam and be nasty and spiteful. Our journals are OURS to do with as we please. To write our OWN thoughts. We can certainly agree to disagree but to write negatively about someone else’s parenting skills (and not the least bit constructively) is just plain mean-hearted. I’ve had to let each of my children cio on multiple occasions. What kind of worn down, haggard, overly-tired and horribly exhausted mama would I be if I didn’t?? Show me a parent who hasn’t at LEAST ONCE done that and I’ll show you someone who lies like a rug!!! :frog: 😀 LOL!! Love ya!!!

  14. Jen

    hey jenn! i totally understand the need for password protection.
    hey jenn! i totally understand the need for password protection. i’m sorry you had to deal with the rude comments. the person either has way too much time on their hands, or is jealous, period! :yes:
    jeremiah is so handsome, and growing so much! i love to see pictures of him. and in response to suzzi’s comment, i’ve read in more than 1 book that it is good to let your baby cry for a few minutes before picking him/her up, even at this young of an age. that way you can familiarize the sound of each cry with the reason (tired, hungry, wanting to be held, etc.) you are doing a great job as a mother, and don’t let anyone tell you any differently!
    hugs to you and jeremiah
    <3jen&adriana :wave:

  15. Julie

    Mornin’ Jenn! Haven’t been around in a few days, as my life got
    Mornin’ Jenn! Haven’t been around in a few days, as my life got crazy! LOL! Looks like I missed some fireworks… WHERE are these people coming from???:confused:

    I can’t believe Jeremiah’s almost 2 months already, any more than I can believe that Amanda is almost 7 months… *sighs*… Where does the time go?

    Have a great day!!!

    Hugs
    Julie

  16. Jess

    Girl- don’t even worry about defending yourself! Those poopheads
    Girl- don’t even worry about defending yourself! Those poopheads have no life. I am a VERY sensitive person, so I understand how it makes you feel though. I am not good at letting anything “roll off my back”. Feel free to vent though- we are always here to listen! Love ya Jenn!

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