Share8PinTweetEmailShareReddit8 SharesA friend was lamenting over the lack of Mother-Son songs for the Mother and Son dance at her son’s wedding. Having four sons, and hoping to someday have daughters-in-law, I set out on a hunt! I decided to be very selective and only use highly appropriate choices. If you know of a song you …
Wildcrafting for Kids {Link Roundup}
SharePin1TweetEmailShareReddit1 SharesMy friend was looking at a particular site for Wildcrafting, and I think the site’s ideals are not in line with mine, so I wanted to find some others. I searched for a while and found a few good ones. 🙂 So let me save you the Googling! WILDCRAFTING FOR KIDS: Wildcrafting With Kids …
20 Tips for a Strong Marriage
Share10Pin4TweetEmailShareReddit14 Shares20 Years, Huh?! I find it so hard to believe that I’ve been married 20 years today, and we had our first date 21 years ago today! Marriage is a funny thing, isn’t it? Sometimes, I feel like we’re still newlyweds. Other times, I feel like a wrinkled old couple, still in love and …
But They Look So NORMAL!
Share26PinTweetEmailShareReddit26 SharesI don’t often hear people say this about my boys, but I can tell they’re thinking it. The disapproving looks. The not-so-subtle eye rolls. The exasperation and frustration. They wonder how we could possibly let them get away with that. After all, all they need is a good whipping. You know, when they were …
Putting on the Spirit: Ten-Minute Devotions for Busy Moms {Book Review}
Share21Pin10Tweet2EmailShareReddit33 SharesBusy Being…Busy I don’t begin to know what your days are like. You could spend three hours with the Lord each day, in praise, worship, prayer, and Bible study. If so, you’re my hero! As for me, I always have the best of intentions, but much of the time, devotions go to the wayside. …
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H.O.G.W.A.R.T.S. Homeschool
Share2PinTweetEmailShareReddit2 SharesOur school name used to be what we always pray to be–Happy Hearts Homeschool. We have dealt with severe attitudes over the years, but they get better every day. 🙂 Once the boys got a little older, they “outgrew” the name. Now we’re using H.O.G.W.A.R.T.S Homeschool. At first, we came up with Heritage of …
The Life We Never Expected {Book Review}
Share5Pin1Tweet2EmailShareReddit8 SharesDisclosure (in accordance with the FTC’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”): The following is a review. Opinions are 100% my own and NOT influenced by monetary compensation. I did receive a sample of the product in exchange for this review and post. As a mom …
{Book Review} 8 Simple Tools for Raising Great Kids
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Am I Lovable
SharePin33Tweet1EmailShare1Reddit35 SharesIt was my Birthday and my husband took the day off. It’s always a treat to have fun days planned with him. He bought me this gorgeous sweater that fit just right! It was a big deal! I was having morning after morning breakdowns in my head because my clothes didn’t look right on me. Everything …
How to Have an Imperfectly Perfect Marriage
Share17Pin176TweetEmailShare1Reddit194 SharesSeveral years ago, my neighbor was having a difficult time in her marriage. Her husband was leaving her and she could not stop crying. I remember finding her scrunched up in the corner of her sofa. My heart broke for her. I sat with her and I cried alongside her. I tried to offer …
How to Be a Good (Second) Wife
SharePin206TweetEmailShare1Reddit207 SharesMarriage is wonderful. Marriage is also hard. When getting married, we all bring some things from our pasts into the marriage. But what if some of those “things” are remnants and products of a previous marriage? I’m a second wife to a second husband. I never thought I’d marry twice. When I married the …
Worthy of Love: A Perfect Groom and His Imperfect Bride
Share28Pin25Tweet1EmailShare1Reddit55 SharesMy imperfections were glaring when I met my husband. At 19, I had already been divorced from an abusive man and endured indescribable difficulties. My young son had just turned one year old, and I assumed no one would ever truly love me. There was too much in my life that made me unworthy of love. I …
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Living With Expectations
Share16Pin25TweetEmailShare1Reddit42 SharesThe expectations we carry into marriage influence us in many ways. If those ideas and assumptions are met, the relationship is happy and peaceful. If expectations are not met, disappointment with the other spouse and disillusionment in the marriage sets in. Early in our marriage, I wondered why my husband wasn’t doing things I …
The Perfectly Unstable Wife
Share12Pin40TweetEmailShare1Reddit53 SharesThe beginning of my relationship with my husband was built on a shaky foundation. The relationships that were to serve as healthy models during our childhood had instead given light to what we didn’t want. Barely adults, we stood upon a threshold littered with tiny shards of hope. Taking a leap of faith, at …
Recipe for a Healthy In-Law Relationship
Share38Pin41TweetEmailShare1Reddit80 SharesThere we were, young college students living far from our families, clueless about this institution we’d just signed onto called marriage. After the honeymoon, it didn’t take long for us to realize we were polar opposites. I was from the North; he was from the South. I liked to talk; he liked it quiet. …
Relying on My Husband…Instead of Jesus
SharePin94TweetEmailShare1Reddit95 SharesUnfortunately, it’s possible to sabotage your marriage while living as an otherwise happily married Christian woman. I know this from experience. Although I didn’t realize it at the time, I was guilty of relying on my husband for the comfort and peace that can only come from Jesus Christ. That’s an impossible expectation and when …
Discussing Difficult Issues with Our Kids
SharePin1TweetEmailShareReddit1 SharesMy oldest son will be twelve years old in a couple months. That’s old enough that we should have had more sensitive subject talks sooner than now. Unfortunately, we have put it off. I guess I’ve been the head-in-the-sand kind of mom without realizing it. We have used the real words for private parts …
When “Mommy Doesn’t Feel Good” {Imperfect Moms Day 48}
Share14Pin28Tweet4EmailShareReddit46 SharesWhat do you do when it seems like you never feel well? I get a little tired of hearing the mantra myself. Like a broken record-player. Playing the same old song over and over again. Those sad, disappointed little voices. “Mommy doesn’t feel good… Mommy’s tired… Mommy needs to lay down… Mommy doesn’t feel …
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How to Love Your Children Well {Imperfect Moms Day 46}
Share49Pin51Tweet12EmailShareReddit112 SharesCommon wisdom says that the best thing a mom and dad can do for their children is to love one another. But more important than that is for a child to see that his parents love Jesus Christ. Not, and I’m being very specific here, not merely hear it said that they love Him, but see everyday, and …
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Dear Momma, You Can Rejoice in Your Imperfections! {Imperfect Moms Day 45}
Share20Pin25Tweet1EmailShareReddit46 SharesDear Momma, Today I want to share some of my imperfections with you. I yell. A lot. Sometimes it seems that the only way that the boys will listen is if there is yelling involved. I lose my patience easily. I discipline out of anger. I have a hard time apologizing. Is it hard …
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Even Parenting Authors Aren’t Perfect, But God Is {Imperfect Moms Day 44}
Share6Pin21Tweet6EmailShareReddit33 SharesI am sitting on an airplane on my way to a conference and I am so frustrated! I couldn’t find the top I need to wear tonight. Just couldn’t find it. I tore the house up looking for it. How do things like that happen? How can you lose an outfit you wear all …
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5 Tips to Outwit the Overwhelms {Imperfect Moms Day 43}
Share27Pin12Tweet4EmailShareReddit43 SharesWe cherish of the sweet moments of motherhood, of tucking our little ones in at night with soft moon-glow as they drift off in peaceful sleep. Reality strikes in any of the following scenarios that develop after the supposed final goodnight. “Mommy, I need a drink!” says the bright-eyed preschooler in the doorway. The …
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17 Things I’ve Learned in 17 Years of Marriage
Share20Pin47TweetEmailShare1Reddit68 SharesI know what you’re probably thinking. “That’s an odd number!” Am I right? But this year is our Grandiversary. {BTW, I made that up, so you’re not uninformed. You’ve heard of a Grand Birthday, or a Golden Birthday, haven’t you? Well, if not, it’s the birthday that you have that falls on the day …
God is “PROUD” of you! {Imperfect Moms Day 41}
Share14Pin12Tweet1EmailShareReddit27 SharesA couple weeks ago my son came home from school so excited to show me he had gotten 6 blue ROYAL tickets. These tickets represent the code of behavior in his school: R = Respect O = On-task Y = Your best A = Attitude L = Leadership I looked at him and expressed …